Let's Talk…

So for the greater population there is the general consensus that women are complicated and we do not know what we what.

Newsflash: We are not. We just happen to not live in a perfect world but one with frustrations and it's contributing complications. Considering this it would then make sense that women also would think that men can be and are just as complicated.
Sure, we are not always sure of exactly what we want all the time and men please admit even if not to us but to yourselves that sometimes neither do you. We don't know whether we wnat that peppermint bonbon or rocky road icecream or that Aston Martin instead of the Bugatti Veyron.

But think about it a second...
Why do we each think of the other sex as complicated (the term gender now means more than just two things)? My opinion? A chronic lack of communication. I know what I want. You know what you want. Next step: talk about it.

What's the point in skirting about each other pretending to be mind readers but failing horribly and only end up making things worse by acting on assumptions. Talk it out. No matter how hard it may be. Maybe the next time you ask "honey what's wrong" you'd not just get back "nothing" and have the issue is swept under the rug from which it is going to stink eventually, or one partner is going to get even more upset because they feel the other should know (chale chale
women...men... WE WERE NOT GIVEN THE ABILITY TO READ MINDS. But we were given mouths to talk and ears to listen and finally brains to process and understand and then solve.

*sigh* I tire saf.

And just so you know this doesn't just apply to romantic relationships but to them all.
Talk it out. The first time will be hard and tempers may fly but it would get easier and you'll be better off. Do it before you simply do not talk at all about anything and the covered up wound just festers and rots and then a limb has to be cut off (Please forgive the graphic imagery).

…Have the best day y'all.
KuiDee.